View Full Version : Sasha Gray's take on interracial porn
RebelAzn
Aug 30th, 2007, 07:46 PM
I have no idea who she is, but I am assuming she is a porn star. She talked about interracial porn and made comments about Asian men in porn. Anyway, she seems to be fairly open about her comments.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x6SchNNmNBY&mode=related&search=
Scaramanga
Aug 31st, 2007, 12:37 AM
Wrong video (although it seems interesting), the Sasha Gray bit is on:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x6SchNNmNBY
(unless Rebel edits it first :))
RebelAzn
Aug 31st, 2007, 12:47 AM
Wrong video (although it seems interesting), the Sasha Gray bit is on:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x6SchNNmNBY
(unless Rebel edits it first :))
Yeah you are right. Fixed. Thanks. The reason I add the link here is because even she made comments about Asian male stereotypes and also made comments about lack of Asian men in the porn industry.
Vahz
Aug 31st, 2007, 12:01 PM
Heh, you know it's bad when you have porn stars, such as this girl and Mika Tan, talking about the emasculated Asian male stereotype.
Scowl
Aug 31st, 2007, 12:17 PM
I turned the volume all the way up and proceeded to masturbate vigorously. I managed to land the money shot right on her face on my computer monitor.
nskripchun
Aug 31st, 2007, 07:46 PM
Heh, you know it's bad when you have porn stars, such as this girl and Mika Tan, talking about the emasculated Asian male stereotype.
Wasn't there a post on the old F44s forum about Mika Tan looking Asian male pr0n actors?
She should go visit this thread:
http://www.thefighting44s.com/forum/showthread.php?t=4517&page=7
haha.
DONKEY
Aug 31st, 2007, 08:57 PM
am i the only one who doesnt care about representation in porn?
porn industry is lame. i dont care what some porno actress says.
Vetrean
Sep 1st, 2007, 01:46 AM
I think it's more 'you know it's bad when porn stars notice it.'
RebelAzn
Sep 3rd, 2007, 05:34 PM
It is not a fact that porn actress notice or it is lame from a porn star. The fact is stereotypes for Asian men are well known and EVERYONE knows it.
The fact is she went out of her way to address the stereotypes which is something positive for the Asian men to say the least. She also addressed the black men penis stereotype as well. Aren't porn stars like sex experts since they have seen everything out there?
You guys might want to watch her interview on the Tyra Banks show. She is young but she is not as stupid as people think she is.
CJF
Sep 3rd, 2007, 07:25 PM
It is not a fact that porn actress notice or it is lame from a porn star. The fact is stereotypes for Asian men are well known and EVERYONE knows it.
The fact is she went out of her way to address the stereotypes which is something positive for the Asian men to say the least. She also addressed the black men penis stereotype as well. Aren't porn stars like sex experts since they have seen everything out there?
You guys might want to watch her interview on the Tyra Banks show. She is young but she is not as stupid as people think she is.
not true. Not everybody knows it. You'll still have tons of idiots saying small penis jokes and many really believe it.
Anyways, this girl, even being a porn star, is 100x's more inciteful than any of the crap you hear from Amy Tan or any of those AF authors.
I don't even think she's part Asian, looking up her wikipedia and all, it says she's, Irish, italian and polish.
RebelAzn
Sep 3rd, 2007, 11:29 PM
Anyways, this girl, even being a porn star, is 100x's more inciteful than any of the crap you hear from Amy Tan or any of those AF authors.
Yep it is true. There are a few videos on YouTube regarding Asian men and their dating issues. It seems the only women out there defending Asian men are white women. What the hell is wrong with Asian women anyway? Don't any of them have a voice and they just prefer to stay silent? I mean it is cool some white girls that are dating Asian men are out there dispelling stereotypes, but it would be nice to see it from some Asian women as well. There must be a ton of young Asian men and women watching these little clips and I am sure they can be a strong voice for Asian Americans.
t-tocs
Sep 3rd, 2007, 11:39 PM
If anything, it is the white washed AF that are bashing AM.
Yep it is true. There are a few videos on YouTube regarding Asian men and their dating issues. It seems the only women out there defending Asian men are white women. What the hell is wrong with Asian women anyway? Don't any of them have a voice and they just prefer to stay silent? I mean it is cool some white girls that are dating Asian men are out there dispelling stereotypes, but it would be nice to see it from some Asian women as well. There must be a ton of young Asian men and women watching these little clips and I am sure they can be a strong voice for Asian Americans.
CJF
Sep 4th, 2007, 01:27 AM
Yep it is true. There are a few videos on YouTube regarding Asian men and their dating issues. It seems the only women out there defending Asian men are white women. What the hell is wrong with Asian women anyway? Don't any of them have a voice and they just prefer to stay silent? I mean it is cool some white girls that are dating Asian men are out there dispelling stereotypes, but it would be nice to see it from some Asian women as well. There must be a ton of young Asian men and women watching these little clips and I am sure they can be a strong voice for Asian Americans.
Forget AF man. Maybe we should ourselves go for non-Asian women. What's the point of staying loyal if they aren't?
Anyways, regarding her as a porn star, a lot of times, it's the people from humbler backgrounds that are more inciteful. You hear all these educated idiots spewing out cliches "I don't see race." blah blah blah "Eliminate racism" blah blah blah...but they don't see the real racism that goes on in society.
nightshade
Sep 4th, 2007, 01:43 AM
Yep it is true. There are a few videos on YouTube regarding Asian men and their dating issues. It seems the only women out there defending Asian men are white women. What the hell is wrong with Asian women anyway? Don't any of them have a voice and they just prefer to stay silent? I mean it is cool some white girls that are dating Asian men are out there dispelling stereotypes, but it would be nice to see it from some Asian women as well. There must be a ton of young Asian men and women watching these little clips and I am sure they can be a strong voice for Asian Americans.
Forget AF man. Maybe we should ourselves go for non-Asian women. What's the point of staying loyal if they aren't?
Yeah, just forget AF. We're just a bunch of dumb docile bitches who only know how to fellate white dick.
CJF
Sep 4th, 2007, 02:01 AM
Yeah, just forget AF. We're just a bunch of dumb docile bitches who only know how to fellate white dick.
No. Forget the ones that we can't get. And get whatever we can get. We shouldn't be extra loyal to AF if AF aren't super loyal to us IMO. If an Asian chicks likes you go for it...if she wants white dick like you say, just walk it off and forget her. :p
nightshade
Sep 4th, 2007, 02:04 AM
No. Forget the ones that we can't get. And get whatever we can get. We shouldn't be extra loyal to AF if AF aren't super loyal to us IMO. If an Asian chicks likes you go for it...if she wants white dick like you say, just walk it off and forget her. :p
Dude, I'm a chick. That was me being an asshole. I don't need to read about how some white porn star chick understands the Asian American male plight more than I do.
CJF
Sep 4th, 2007, 02:34 AM
Dude, I'm a chick. That was me being an asshole. I don't need to read about how some white porn star chick understands the Asian American male plight more than I do.
I know you are a chick. And I'm not necessarily talking about you. I'm generalizing. If I were to say "with the exception of a few" after every other sentence, it ruins the flow of the conversation.
This white porn star chick understands more about Asian American male plight than Amy Tan. Amy Tan, according to Western media and Asian American majors is somehow the goddess of Asian American literature and though. That says a lot when this woman knows more than her.
and anyways, I don't look down on porn stars. They admittedly have sex for money. That's no different than some girls I know who sleep for men for Louie Vutton bags. At least she is up front and honest about it unlike them. :)
nightshade
Sep 4th, 2007, 01:13 PM
I know you are a chick. And I'm not necessarily talking about you. I'm generalizing. If I were to say "with the exception of a few" after every other sentence, it ruins the flow of the conversation.
This white porn star chick understands more about Asian American male plight than Amy Tan. Amy Tan, according to Western media and Asian American majors is somehow the goddess of Asian American literature and though. That says a lot when this woman knows more than her.
and anyways, I don't look down on porn stars. They admittedly have sex for money. That's no different than some girls I know who sleep for men for Louie Vutton bags. At least she is up front and honest about it unlike them. :)
Amy Tan isn't the goddess of Asian American literature--she doesn't have a literary reputation. She's the Stephen King of AA writing. Now Maxine Hong Kingston--she's highly problematic in terms of Asian American literature and scholarship because she does have a strong literary reputation. MHK sure comes off as hating Asians. But I digress.
I'm taking issue with the last few posts of the thread because shit is getting kind of white knights will save us. How is saying that a white chick understands the issues so much better than an AF any different than a CCB AF saying that white dudes understand feminism while Asian American guys don't? And christ, why is the fix-it in this situation always about getting white pussy?
On a side note, I wish I'd known about the lack of Asian dudes in porn back when I interviewed Annabel Chong. I'd be interested to know what she has to say on the topic.
Dimeron
Sep 4th, 2007, 02:39 PM
Yep it is true. There are a few videos on YouTube regarding Asian men and their dating issues. It seems the only women out there defending Asian men are white women. What the hell is wrong with Asian women anyway? Don't any of them have a voice and they just prefer to stay silent? I mean it is cool some white girls that are dating Asian men are out there dispelling stereotypes, but it would be nice to see it from some Asian women as well. There must be a ton of young Asian men and women watching these little clips and I am sure they can be a strong voice for Asian Americans.
Hm... Even assuming that's true (which it is not btw, there are tons of articles by AAF who has commented on the issue), the attitude is just wrong on so many levels. The best way to dispel stereotypes attack those making them and disproof them. Blame AAF for everything whine feast is just plain stupid.
CJF
Sep 4th, 2007, 02:54 PM
Amy Tan isn't the goddess of Asian American literature--she doesn't have a literary reputation. She's the Stephen King of AA writing. Now Maxine Hong Kingston--she's highly problematic in terms of Asian American literature and scholarship because she does have a strong literary reputation. MHK sure comes off as hating Asians. But I digress.
I'm taking issue with the last few posts of the thread because shit is getting kind of white knights will save us. How is saying that a white chick understands the issues so much better than an AF any different than a CCB AF saying that white dudes understand feminism while Asian American guys don't? And christ, why is the fix-it in this situation always about getting white pussy?
On a side note, I wish I'd known about the lack of Asian dudes in porn back when I interviewed Annabel Chong. I'd be interested to know what she has to say on the topic.
The point is not that White Sasha Grey has come to save us. The point is we are in a sad fucking state when a porn star makes this type of observation, when I bet half the Asian American majors in the US can't make it.
These so called "experts" on AA issues get fed crap like MHK like you mentioned.
A lot of times, it's the people in the lowest social statuses in life that have the keenest observations. How many times will you see a famous Asian woman say something like that? We have our own Kelly Hu making a small dick joke about Sammo Hung...and then we have some retard porn star saying that the stereotypes are not true. It's the irony, not the specifics that I am talking about. And the irony is painfully hilarious!
Anyways, it's not about the porn, but how AM are demasculinized. You don't have to do porn to be a man. But we don't need Jackie Chan making a dick out of himself for laughs "Look at funny chinaman" blah blah blah.
nightshade
Sep 4th, 2007, 03:21 PM
The point is not that White Sasha Grey has come to save us. The point is we are in a sad fucking state when a porn star makes this type of observation, when I bet half the Asian American majors in the US can't make it.
These so called "experts" on AA issues get fed crap like MHK like you mentioned.
A lot of times, it's the people in the lowest social statuses in life that have the keenest observations. How many times will you see a famous Asian woman say something like that? We have our own Kelly Hu making a small dick joke about Sammo Hung...and then we have some retard porn star saying that the stereotypes are not true. It's the irony, not the specifics that I am talking about. And the irony is painfully hilarious!
Anyways, it's not about the porn, but how AM are demasculinized. You don't have to do porn to be a man. But we don't need Jackie Chan making a dick out of himself for laughs "Look at funny chinaman" blah blah blah.
If you'd said this in the first place, instead of the whole bullshit, forget AF, let's get whatever we can get, I wouldn't have had the fuck off response because we're on the same page about the representation of Asian American males in popular culture.
Scowl
Sep 4th, 2007, 07:21 PM
The danger here, folks, is the whole "hate the Asian women" thing that tends to pop up in discussions on IR. Yeah, we feel like shit every time an Asian woman spits out the same racist bullshit that we are used to getting from non-Asians; I imagine that Asian women who don't hate Asian guys still don't feel too good about the AF bashing that goes on.
I remember back in the day someone posted an article here talking about how Korean women in some place in the US were complaining that all the Korean guys were taken by white women; you should have seen the crazy AMs (long since banned) reveling in orgasmic joy. I never understood why they were hating on the AFs who wanted AMs..... I mean, these were the AFs who weren't "selling out." But, you know, for them, Asian women just can't win. As AMs, I know most of us here know that feeling well.
CJF
Sep 4th, 2007, 09:16 PM
If you'd said this in the first place, instead of the whole bullshit, forget AF, let's get whatever we can get, I wouldn't have had the fuck off response because we're on the same page about the representation of Asian American males in popular culture.
MEH, When I said that, I'm referring to those whitewashed ones. I'd rather date a white girl than an Asian girl who is insecure with being Asian if I had to choose to be honest.
I get totally turned off when Asian girls who overlooked me before suddenly get interested when they find out I'm half white.
nightshade
Sep 4th, 2007, 10:56 PM
*hugs Scowl*
RebelAzn
Sep 4th, 2007, 11:40 PM
I never understood why they were hating on the AFs who wanted AMs..... I mean, these were the AFs who weren't "selling out." But, you know, for them, Asian women just can't win. As AMs, I know most of us here know that feeling well.
Scowl - agreed. I think it is totally counterproductive to making statements like "hating on all AFs" etc. There are a ton of AFs who are behind AMs and we definitely need to support these women. I think the issue I have is there are some white-washed self hating AFs out there spreading Asian men stereotypes even when these females probably have zero experience with Asian men outside their own family members. Because these women look Asian, white and other non-Asian people automatically think these women are the "experts" on Asian related issues. This has happened time and time again in the media. I don't want to rehash the history, but I am sure some posters can make a list of these incidents. It would certainly be nice to see other AFs who are supporting AMs speak out more loudly on these issues vs. staying silent.
At end of the day, we do need to support AFs who are behind AMs in battling stereotypes in this country. However, we need to fix all the issues within our own community first before making an united front to the general population.
SamuraiJack
Sep 5th, 2007, 12:27 AM
The danger here, folks, is the whole "hate the Asian women" thing that tends to pop up in discussions on IR. Yeah, we feel like shit every time an Asian woman spits out the same racist bullshit that we are used to getting from non-Asians; I imagine that Asian women who don't hate Asian guys still don't feel too good about the AF bashing that goes on.
I remember back in the day someone posted an article here talking about how Korean women in some place in the US were complaining that all the Korean guys were taken by white women; you should have seen the crazy AMs (long since banned) reveling in orgasmic joy. I never understood why they were hating on the AFs who wanted AMs..... I mean, these were the AFs who weren't "selling out." But, you know, for them, Asian women just can't win. As AMs, I know most of us here know that feeling well.
Personally, I view "CCB"s as victims as well. I would say they have no control over the brainwashing that they've experienced.
VeryAngry
Sep 17th, 2007, 01:58 PM
I'm just curious about something. As an Asian American man, how many Asian women do you personally know outside of the internet who gives a fuck about the obvious and subtle forms of sexual racism you endure?
By the way, I think we should pay money to Keni Styles and Rick Lee to pork Sasha Grey good.
ZhuBaJie
Sep 17th, 2007, 04:52 PM
yay! more mail-order Asian bride ads for the site!
Vahz
Sep 17th, 2007, 08:47 PM
I'm just curious about something. As an Asian American man, how many Asian women do you personally know outside of the internet who gives a fuck about the obvious and subtle forms of sexual racism you endure?
From what I've seen, very very few and the ones that are tend to be activists. I believe all Asian men, whether they're activists or not, acknowledge the asexual stereotype but complain about it to a varying degree. One thing is for sure though, every Asian guy will eventually have their sexuality questioned at one point in their lives.
As for Asian women, I doubt many of them know about it. If anything, the thing they question the most is why random creepy white guys hit on them.
VeryAngry
Sep 19th, 2007, 08:55 AM
Lol'ed at the "thing they question the most" part. Haha!
America sounds like a really tough place for an Asian guy.
wuwei
Sep 25th, 2007, 05:54 AM
The part where she was like "Maybe the guys dont do porn cuz of cultural values, but you do see a lot of Asian girls in porn" was depressing as fuck.
Asian American guys = pussies, Asian AMerican girls = trash, pretty much.
VeryAngry
Sep 25th, 2007, 06:17 AM
That part where she brought up the "cultural values" thing made me break out into uncontrollable laughter.
:D
How cliched man. How fucking cliched.
Ike
Sep 25th, 2007, 12:27 PM
The part where she was like "Maybe the guys dont do porn cuz of cultural values, but you do see a lot of Asian girls in porn" was depressing as fuck.
Asian American guys = pussies, Asian AMerican girls = trash, pretty much.
I didn't watch the clip, but perhaps she was trying and failing to come up with an explanation for the disparity between the lack of Asian guys and the multitude of Asian girls in porn. She seems to be saying that "cultural values" are NOT the reason behind the disparity.
I don't think it has much to do with the willingness or lack of willingness from performers. Rather, it's reflective of what porn viewers want to see.
Since porn is marketed mostly toward males, it makes sense for male porn stars to be a guy that the average American man can relate to and imagine himself in the place of. It makes sense for the female stars to be people that men fantasize about.
Apparently there are a lot of Asian men in gay porn.
Representation in porn is just like all other media representation. Perhaps we should vote with our wallets on porn as well?
Scowl
Sep 25th, 2007, 01:55 PM
We're still talking about this?
Look, why does it matter what this white girl has to say? Okay, she refuted the little dick stereotype, and she said that she would be willing to work with (read: fuck) an Asian guy. That's awesome. Score one for the yellow team. What else is there to say about it?
Representation in porn is just like all other media representation. Perhaps we should vote with our wallets on porn as well?
There really isn't anything out there that's deserving of my money, and there's not going to be.
RebelAzn
Sep 27th, 2007, 05:58 AM
Why does every topic on this forum turn into some kind of negative bitching and bashing? Why are people so down with whining?
I thought what she said was positive. I mean she went out of her way to address stereotypes, isn't that a good thing.
Why aren't there more Asian men in porn? Well do any of you know any Asian guys that tried to do porn and got rejected? Seriously, it does not look too hard to produce porn. It is not like you need a huge budget. Any guy with a camera and two people doing the nasty can be porn. Rick Lee from Asianman.com is like the only Asian male porn star and even he keep his identity hidden. Bottom line is most Asian men don't exactly have their dreams set on being a porn star. Do we need more Asian men in porn? Sure but someone has to be willing to do it in the 1st place.
Vahz
Sep 27th, 2007, 12:47 PM
I read an article a while back about Mika Tan shelling out her own money to try to get an all Asian guy cast for a movie and mentioned that the reason why you don't see Asian men is because even if there was a market for these types of videos, Asian men are wary that white men in the industry will use to mock them in some way. In essence, finding a way to make them fail. Sadly, they [Asian men] even had these feelings about Asian WOMEN in the field too.
This strikes me as funny. There was a rumor that has been circulating around Africa that European condom makers were infecting their products with AIDS to kill off black people and steal their land. Now, we all know that these rumors are insane but what's funny is how white people exclaim "How can people be so paranoid and make these things up about white people?"
Well, it's kinda easy when you have a history of screwing people over.
RebelAzn
Sep 27th, 2007, 10:48 PM
I read an article a while back about Mika Tan shelling out her own money to try to get an all Asian guy cast for a movie and mentioned that the reason why you don't see Asian men is because even if there was a market for these types of videos, Asian men are wary that white men in the industry will use to mock them in some way. In essence, finding a way to make them fail. Sadly, they [Asian men] even had these feelings about Asian WOMEN in the field too.
I think if Asian men want to do porn, someone Asian has to produce it and do the script. If you leave it up to some white writer or producer (just like Hollywood), you are pretty much guaranteed to do a porn video where the Asian men will not get roles.
I can't imagine there are no market for this. There are like 1 Billion+ horny Asian men worldwide. I am sure some will want to see porn where people look like them are the main star. If you want to do American style porn, all you need to find a few Asian male porn stars with big dicks and you are ready to go. After all, this is what the porn industry do and they use the same formula. It is not like you are producing Star War so the cost for these porn movies are pretty low comparing to real movies.
VeryAngry
Oct 3rd, 2007, 04:12 PM
There's pornos from Japan but they don't seem to have a presence in the USA.
I hear that the situation in the USA is critical. I've heard of entire generations of Asian men only being able to get it up by imagining their penis is black or white. Well, maybe not "entire generations". More like I've heard two people say that. But even that's too much to hear.
Scowl
Oct 4th, 2007, 01:15 PM
Why does every topic on this forum turn into some kind of negative bitching and bashing? Why are people so down with whining?
Who is whining and bitching? I applaud this white sex goddess's willingness to take some eggroll up the poop chute. In a professional manner, of course.
I thought what she said was positive. I mean she went out of her way to address stereotypes, isn't that a good thing.
I, too, thought it was very positive. So positive, like, HIV positive. I appreciate her understanding of the different cultural values between Asian men and American men. The porn industry in Asia is much more conservative than America. Well, except for Japan, but they don't count because they are liberated by democracy.
Why aren't there more Asian men in porn? Well do any of you know any Asian guys that tried to do porn and got rejected?
I tried out for porn several times. Purely for the cause, you understand. But just about all the dogs and horses I've worked with have displayed a great bias against Asian men, if not outright refusal to work with them. If only they could all be as open minded as Sasha Grey.
VeryAngry
Oct 4th, 2007, 06:04 PM
I, too, thought it was very positive. So positive, like, HIV positive. I appreciate her understanding of the different cultural values between Asian men and American men. The porn industry in Asia is much more conservative than America. Well, except for Japan, but they don't count because they are liberated by democracy.
ROFL OMG! These five sentences made me laugh uncontrollably for an entire fifteen minutes! :D
Starmoo
Oct 12th, 2007, 05:49 PM
I read an article a while back about Mika Tan shelling out her own money to try to get an all Asian guy cast for a movie and mentioned that the reason why you don't see Asian men is because even if there was a market for these types of videos, Asian men are wary that white men in the industry will use to mock them in some way. In essence, finding a way to make them fail. Sadly, they [Asian men] even had these feelings about Asian WOMEN in the field too.
It's funny that you should mention that. One the most mainstream am pornstar right now is a guy that goes by the name "Hung Lo". He's done scenes for a lot of different movies and websites. I've seen several of them and they're all very strange. He's always speaking in mandarin while banging the girl. In begining he speaks English but you can hear tell director order him to speak Chinese. He usually plays the submissive asian guy. In one scene a girl proclaims that she's tired of getting bossed around by white guys or black guys and she needs a "yellowman" to push around. In another scene, he cums a girl in the mouth and the girl spits it out in disgust and says bad things about him.
Whatever happened to Mika Tans proposed AM porno film anyways? I heard about it years ago. I guess it was dissolved.
VeryAngry
Oct 13th, 2007, 04:55 AM
t's funny that you should mention that. One the most mainstream am pornstar right now is a guy that goes by the name "Hung Lo". He's done scenes for a lot of different movies and websites. I've seen several of them and they're all very strange. He's always speaking in mandarin while banging the girl. In begining he speaks English but you can hear tell director order him to speak Chinese. He usually plays the submissive asian guy. In one scene a girl proclaims that she's tired of getting bossed around by white guys or black guys and she needs a "yellowman" to push around. In another scene, he cums a girl in the mouth and the girl spits it out in disgust and says bad things about him.
What the fuck???!! :mad:
Synthetic
Oct 14th, 2007, 08:50 PM
It's funny that you should mention that. One the most mainstream am pornstar right now is a guy that goes by the name "Hung Lo". He's done scenes for a lot of different movies and websites. I've seen several of them and they're all very strange. He's always speaking in mandarin while banging the girl. In begining he speaks English but you can hear tell director order him to speak Chinese. He usually plays the submissive asian guy. In one scene a girl proclaims that she's tired of getting bossed around by white guys or black guys and she needs a "yellowman" to push around. In another scene, he cums a girl in the mouth and the girl spits it out in disgust and says bad things about him.
Whatever happened to Mika Tans proposed AM porno film anyways? I heard about it years ago. I guess it was dissolved.
hahahahahahahahahahaha....that's awesome. is porn not some of the funniest stuff ever, or what?
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