generaltojo
May 4th, 2006, 04:10 PM
Hey kids... I know I haven't posted in a long time, but something just happened that I gots ta tells y'all about.
BIG_Canon (http://www.thefighting44s.com/discussion/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&u=951) , whom I assure you I don't know from any other average fuckhead who fancies him or herself a 44, sent me this PM - my first PM in a year or so, I think. Here it is...
Subject: tojo is an asshole
Are you an asshole?? Can't take the heat so you have to edit posts. I figure you won't answer. Just edit it!
I'm assuming that little_canon (http://www.thefighting44s.com/discussion/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&u=951) joined up, started posting, then started posting some shit our other administrators found stupid and / or objectionable, and then they took the liberty to fuck around with him and started editing his posts. And then, like other demented fuckups with no firm grasp on what 44 is about (or message board dynamics - or reality for that matter), assumed that because my moniker shows up occasionally in red bold, and yet I don't post, that I was the soul responsible for doing so (in effect, defacing the Rembrandts that he probably considers his posts. Imagine that.)
Now. What's wrong with that assumption?
Well. Considering I haven't posted regularly or interacted with anyone on this board for over a year or so, considering I just check in and browse the insanity a bit, perhaps posting a news bit here and there, considering little_Canon (http://www.thefighting44s.com/discussion/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&u=951) has been a member for what? Two weeks? Versus my own humble membership for two years, which means little_Canon (http://www.thefighting44s.com/discussion/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&u=951) wouldn't know me from another rosebud he randomly zoomed in on in his own demented cyberspace-induced fantasy... well, nothing is right about that assumption. That assumption, quite frankly, has no basis in reality in any way shape or form. That assumption, quite simply, makes an ass of u and me.
Well, not me.
U, little_Canon (http://www.thefighting44s.com/discussion/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&u=951).
And now you're banned.
Harsh? Email bitemetoolboy@thefighting44s.com.
Now. What can we assume from all of this that doesn't make an ass of u, me, or anyone else?
Based on a bit of life exploration that getting away from the 44's has allowed me to do, I've discovered a curious phenom that tends to be prevalent among the creative, the traumatized, the emotionally immature - which (gasp!) includes a noticeable number of Asian guys. It's something I call "imposing narrative onto a situation that unwarrants it." We all do it in one way or another: something happens to us in reality, someone looks their way, someone interacts with them in a good or bad way... and we read far, far too much into it.
Regardless of reality - that the "something" is far less important or meaningful than we take it to be, just a relatively insignificant moment in a string of relatively insignificant moments - the emotionally immature tend to build a fantasy scenario in their head - about who this person is, what they are, what they do, and (if that person happens to be a hot chick, of sorts) what their future'll be like - how many kids, what they're names are going to be, etc etc etc.
In effect, what they're doing is imposing a narrative onto a situation that, at the end of the day, is what it is. The narrative you impose, the assumptions you make - well, it's all in your head, bozo. It has no basis in reality. It's fantasy, based on air. Less than air - just the crazed, paranoiac thoughts in your head that are because of your own lack of experience with people, reality, and messsage board dynamics.
And above all, it has absolutely nothing to do with the person you're imposing this narrative on. And they don't deserve your paranoiac obsession. They presumably have better things to worry about.
little_Canon (http://www.thefighting44s.com/discussion/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&u=951), I suspect, was doing this with his ill-fated PM above.
And now, he's gone.
I left this board for a reason - I had shit going on, and 44 at the time wasn't very good for the soul. For you see, I was starting to do that - imposing narrative onto things with absolutely no evidence in reality to support my assumptions. That the reasons for doing so were right and correct is moot; it was, at the end of the day, more a reflection of me and my issues than of reality and the people I was laying it on.
So I decided to take a break, get a grip on what reality is all about (and reality sure ain't on a goddamn message board, least of all this one!), and, if it's worthwhile, come back. I dunno if it's exactly worthwhile to come back in full form, but I do know this: I have a pretty good grip on reality, now. And I like it.
And, I gots myself admin powers now. For better or worse. And I think I'll use them. Think I'm a tyrant for doing so? No shit, Sherlock - look at my goddamn moniker, and then go fuck yourself with a large pork sausage.
So. Continue to have fun on 44. Continue to get what we're about, laugh, love, cry, scream, and above all, learn to become a superior person in reality so that you can effectively shoulder the reponsibilities you need to shoulder for the sake of The Cause(tm). And, on the side, suck the collective cocks of 44's with a bolded moniker. If you don't, if you insist on coming in and pissing on the rug because of some misguided understanding of message board dynamics and reality at large, then save your urine and fuck the hell off. Hell, let it be a warning, if you wish: if you can't deal with reality, you can't deal with interactions in cyberspace. And you're not welcome here. Consider it a rude dumping back into reality so that you can get some sense into your fucked up brain.
Deal with real life FIRST. THEN you can post here.
Excelsior, GT.
BIG_Canon (http://www.thefighting44s.com/discussion/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&u=951) , whom I assure you I don't know from any other average fuckhead who fancies him or herself a 44, sent me this PM - my first PM in a year or so, I think. Here it is...
Subject: tojo is an asshole
Are you an asshole?? Can't take the heat so you have to edit posts. I figure you won't answer. Just edit it!
I'm assuming that little_canon (http://www.thefighting44s.com/discussion/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&u=951) joined up, started posting, then started posting some shit our other administrators found stupid and / or objectionable, and then they took the liberty to fuck around with him and started editing his posts. And then, like other demented fuckups with no firm grasp on what 44 is about (or message board dynamics - or reality for that matter), assumed that because my moniker shows up occasionally in red bold, and yet I don't post, that I was the soul responsible for doing so (in effect, defacing the Rembrandts that he probably considers his posts. Imagine that.)
Now. What's wrong with that assumption?
Well. Considering I haven't posted regularly or interacted with anyone on this board for over a year or so, considering I just check in and browse the insanity a bit, perhaps posting a news bit here and there, considering little_Canon (http://www.thefighting44s.com/discussion/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&u=951) has been a member for what? Two weeks? Versus my own humble membership for two years, which means little_Canon (http://www.thefighting44s.com/discussion/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&u=951) wouldn't know me from another rosebud he randomly zoomed in on in his own demented cyberspace-induced fantasy... well, nothing is right about that assumption. That assumption, quite frankly, has no basis in reality in any way shape or form. That assumption, quite simply, makes an ass of u and me.
Well, not me.
U, little_Canon (http://www.thefighting44s.com/discussion/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&u=951).
And now you're banned.
Harsh? Email bitemetoolboy@thefighting44s.com.
Now. What can we assume from all of this that doesn't make an ass of u, me, or anyone else?
Based on a bit of life exploration that getting away from the 44's has allowed me to do, I've discovered a curious phenom that tends to be prevalent among the creative, the traumatized, the emotionally immature - which (gasp!) includes a noticeable number of Asian guys. It's something I call "imposing narrative onto a situation that unwarrants it." We all do it in one way or another: something happens to us in reality, someone looks their way, someone interacts with them in a good or bad way... and we read far, far too much into it.
Regardless of reality - that the "something" is far less important or meaningful than we take it to be, just a relatively insignificant moment in a string of relatively insignificant moments - the emotionally immature tend to build a fantasy scenario in their head - about who this person is, what they are, what they do, and (if that person happens to be a hot chick, of sorts) what their future'll be like - how many kids, what they're names are going to be, etc etc etc.
In effect, what they're doing is imposing a narrative onto a situation that, at the end of the day, is what it is. The narrative you impose, the assumptions you make - well, it's all in your head, bozo. It has no basis in reality. It's fantasy, based on air. Less than air - just the crazed, paranoiac thoughts in your head that are because of your own lack of experience with people, reality, and messsage board dynamics.
And above all, it has absolutely nothing to do with the person you're imposing this narrative on. And they don't deserve your paranoiac obsession. They presumably have better things to worry about.
little_Canon (http://www.thefighting44s.com/discussion/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&u=951), I suspect, was doing this with his ill-fated PM above.
And now, he's gone.
I left this board for a reason - I had shit going on, and 44 at the time wasn't very good for the soul. For you see, I was starting to do that - imposing narrative onto things with absolutely no evidence in reality to support my assumptions. That the reasons for doing so were right and correct is moot; it was, at the end of the day, more a reflection of me and my issues than of reality and the people I was laying it on.
So I decided to take a break, get a grip on what reality is all about (and reality sure ain't on a goddamn message board, least of all this one!), and, if it's worthwhile, come back. I dunno if it's exactly worthwhile to come back in full form, but I do know this: I have a pretty good grip on reality, now. And I like it.
And, I gots myself admin powers now. For better or worse. And I think I'll use them. Think I'm a tyrant for doing so? No shit, Sherlock - look at my goddamn moniker, and then go fuck yourself with a large pork sausage.
So. Continue to have fun on 44. Continue to get what we're about, laugh, love, cry, scream, and above all, learn to become a superior person in reality so that you can effectively shoulder the reponsibilities you need to shoulder for the sake of The Cause(tm). And, on the side, suck the collective cocks of 44's with a bolded moniker. If you don't, if you insist on coming in and pissing on the rug because of some misguided understanding of message board dynamics and reality at large, then save your urine and fuck the hell off. Hell, let it be a warning, if you wish: if you can't deal with reality, you can't deal with interactions in cyberspace. And you're not welcome here. Consider it a rude dumping back into reality so that you can get some sense into your fucked up brain.
Deal with real life FIRST. THEN you can post here.
Excelsior, GT.