Comments on: “She would have felt it more if you were white”

By: Dialectic

Dialectic — Tue, 05 Aug 2008 01:57:54 +0000

If you’re trying to imply that I have an inferiority complex, you’re a moron. I make jokes about all races and all people, including myself, all the time. Plus, I live in Toronto (as opposed to buttfuck, America) which produced Russell Peters, and good-natured race-based jokes are totally acceptable here.

You’re not making friends on the forum either, fyi.

By: ShangriLa

ShangriLa — Sun, 03 Aug 2008 04:57:47 +0000

White people do think they are superior to other races. Extrapolate that further, and yes white guys do feel smug when they walk through Chinatown with that Asian girl with the big tits and round ass. Furthermore, they don’t feel in physical danger when they do so because most Asians are physically smaller than they are. None of this should be news to any of us. And by the way, Dialectic, you put yourself down first. You should ask yourself why you felt you needed to do that in front of all those white people. That would have been a better essay.

By: analogisnumberone

analogisnumberone — Thu, 03 Jul 2008 22:09:07 +0000

The white guy who makes jokes is a racist. Call him on it. Fight him if you have too. Life doesn’t have to be pleasant for him. The world is not his to profit from with his sellout Chinese wife. Being white is never a liability, so you have to make him suffer a little.

By: valleydude

valleydude — Wed, 20 Feb 2008 21:49:20 +0000

Speaking as YT with interracial relationship experience (all of them):

1. Yes, he probably does make those jokes in front of his wife. She might even find them funny in a perverse way. Lots of theories why (all on other threads), but yeah, she will find it insultingly funny, maybe. She might also say snarky things about his white relatives as well. However, work is not the place for that.

2. White guys who make these kind of jokes also tend to be hard on their own race as well (such as making fun of white trash wrestling fans). If not, well that’s pretty scummy and just outright racist. It’s good to know and remember no one’s perfect.

3. It really sucks to him to have made that joke to your face, unless this was the kind of over-the-top humor you guys normally do, and you tease him back in the same extreme way.

When white people do this (without some justification, like you making Canadian jokes about him or something) it shames us all. He wouldn’t have made the same kind of comment about watermellon to a black guy, right? So it was cowardly as well.

It is interesting that you know all of their detailed backgrounds — you’re a man after my own tastes. Do race, identity and ethnicity come up a lot as topics at work? Maybe it’s best to stay away from that so that no one’s feelings get hurt.

I do remember getting teased by Asian classmates about my Polish background when I was in Magnet school (mostly Asian student population), but I never bagged back about penile size. I don’t really remember bagging back at all. Maybe that’s why I’m angry too ;)

By: NICENURSE

NICENURSE — Mon, 04 Feb 2008 20:01:28 +0000

Dialectic, I’m sorry you were subjected to such ignorance. Unfortunately that kind of thinking is here to stay. Minorities are just going to have to continue to rise above it. As far as AF/WM and AF/BM relationships go, I agree with some of ChocolateButterfly’s statment. I always here how that is the reason why these men hook up with AF. I am not saying that WM/BM are not attracted to AF. Whenever I hear men talking about asian women, They always talk about how submissive they are. I personally do not believe that. At least not for Asian American women. They tend to be pretty independent and don’t take shit off of anyone. I wish people could take you and just judge you on an individual level. Stop defining whole races of people by stereotypes. As far as big penis and small penis. I have said it before and I will say it again. No one race of men has a monopoly on big dicks.

By: chocolatebutterfly

chocolatebutterfly — Mon, 07 Jan 2008 18:49:19 +0000

I am so pissed because I wrote a reponse to this post at like 3am this morning and for some reason when I hit submit it said I needed to be logged in to make a comment. O well..From reading this article I felt a few things one the stereotypical racism that still exists in this country regardless of the level of education. Typical of the ” I am not racist I have black friends” comment that has become a staple in the Black American Culture. As an Black person grwoing up I have been privy to many stereotypes and witnessed countless acts of racism,and when people are called to the carpet on it the ways they try to justify or ask why are you offended?. As a woman I think his comment towards you wa just stupid and would be safe in assuming that he is King Of the Small Penises hence why he purchases all of the superficial things to please his wife. I have dated men of various nationalities and small penises are UNIVERSAL!! Also I think that the way AF are viewed by American Men both Black and White are as subserviant waifs who can be easily controlled. Which is screwed up in itself. The fact that you would choose a woman based on the sole fact that you can control her is sad. Whether this is a misconception or not it is a horrible thing to expect from someone based on their culture. I think the fact that you didn’t punch him dead in the eye is commendable I am not sure I could have been so calm had this happened to me…. Crazy! Thanks for sharing

By: ycformosa

ycformosa — Wed, 26 Dec 2007 09:13:35 +0000

I have a story to tell. I worked for a mortgage company in IL. USA. Most people in this company are white and Arabs.
Here was this Greek American who moved from Greece when he was kid. He was from Grete Island Greece. One day I have a conversation with him with some people around us. I mentioned to him that I always want visit Greek island. He suggest me I should visit Greece in August because there will be lots of blue-eye, blonde hair Swedish girls visiting Greece. Then suddenly he looked at me-liked two seconds and lowed his voice, saying the phrase I did not exactly sure he used, but I did know what he meant. He meant that he was not sure that Swedish girls would like Asian guys. Then there was a silent, nobody said anything, one of guys around us would tried to break the awkward moment; saying “Hung would be OK”. I was speechless. This is how the white men see us. I would nine of ten white men have this kind views.
Fuck them

By: Veryangry

Veryangry — Thu, 20 Sep 2007 08:19:21 +0000

Vahz, if I ever met those guys you mentioned on the street or anywhere really, I would not hesitate to slam dunk whatever I can onto their face. One drunken comment, KAPOW! Lights out baby.

By: Dialectic

Dialectic — Sun, 22 Jul 2007 09:37:35 +0000

Mndeg, I actually hit him back by making a comment about flaccid and lumpy white cocks. It was fine. “Alexandru” even diffused the situation by saying, “Just because John and I have flaccid and lumpy cocks doesn’t mean all white guys do!” And John also said to Tracy right after that he’d gone too far.

And Mndeg, try not to be an asshole from now on.

As for that sort of humor, I don’t think that was a huge set-up; also, I make Russell Peters type jokes all the time, and people generally enjoy them.

A guy can be an asshole no matter what you say, kinda like you!

By: evil_FUX

evil_FUX — Sun, 22 Jul 2007 07:25:55 +0000

^If you read the Interracial dating feature you’d see in the comments that he did call that guy out, and wtf, how does he get blamed for creating an alleged “preemptive” strike?